Have you ever had a revelation? Not an epiphany mind you but a revelation.

I had a couple of them tonight. It started when I was writing up a blog post. It was a long rant about things that really aren't important to this post, but suffice to say it was a rather heated rant. I finished the rant and started re-reading for typos and grammar problems . . . and I realized something.

I didn't really feel all that strongly about things I had written in the rant. I wrote it just for the benefit of someone who I am pretty sure would be reading it. No, I am not going to say who that someone was, and those of you who are reading it will probably guess the wrong someone.

So I scrapped that blog for that reason and made myself a solumn promise.

I will write this blog for me and only for me. I will write what I feel like writing when I feel like writing. I won't write this for the benefit of others.

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Now on to the blog post I originally thought up earlier today to post.

Every man has one certain thing that gets them about women. Some men are ass men. Some like small feet. Some guys judge women by their haircolor first. One of my buddies is a self proclaimed "Breast Man". One of my friends likes nothing more than the shape of a woman's legs.

Personally, there are three things that really get me - Eyes, Smile, and Laughter.

I can lose myself in a woman's eyes sooner than you can say "Wow." It doesn't matter what color those eyes might be (although I have always been a sucker for green). Eyes are one of the portals into the soul, and if those eyes show that particular sparkle that tells me someone is a good person with a good heart and a quick mind . . . I am as good as gone.

While a woman's eyes can draw me in and keep me trapped for hours on end, a woman's smile can shoot like an arrow straight into my heart. Nothing plucks my heartstrings more than a warm smile from a lovely lady. A smile is also reflected in the eyes of the woman smiling, and that just makes smiles even better. One of the main reasons I walk around with a smile on my face is because I know that smiles are contagious and I am always hoping that just one woman will catch it.

And finally laughter . . . the sound of laughter is a sweet as the best music in the world. True laughter - whether it be a pealing sound like dozens of bells, a belly laugh that is lower than a normal speaking voice, or full of squeaks and snorts - can warm any heart (even if some don't show it). A good laugh can turn a horrible day into a decent day, and if you do it enough, that decent day could become a great day.

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Ah, so now the world knows my weaknesses, but then again anyone who knows me probably already knows all about them as it is.

Now to end with a few quotes.

“Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. It is not something physical.”

“Never frown, because you never know when someone is falling in love with your smile.”

“Laughter is but a frown turned upside down”

Those are some good ones, but I think my favorite of the night is this one:

“Laughter is day, and sobriety is night; a smile is the twilight that hovers gently between both, more bewitching than either.” - Henry Ward Beecher